A true story. Visit www.iloblog.com or PADITA AGU’s YouTube page to WATCH and LISTEN to how she married this man on the first day she set her eyes on him.
- Never give in to pressure, no matter how much you owe them, be it peer group pressure, parent pressure, whatever pressure, directly or indirectly.
- Never assume you are familiar with someone that you are chatting or talking with on phone especially those in a long-distance relationship. Most times seeing is not enough. You need to get to know them one on one.
- Never settle for a spouse you are not compatible with (emotional compatibility, intellectual compatibility, financial compatibility, spec compatibility). If you are a spec kind of person it is advised you go for your spec and lastly;
- Never live in isolation
PADITA’S reply to her fans;
Wow!!! I am overwhelmed with love at your response, love and support. I mean I wanted it, but I wasn’t sure you’ll give it.
This ordeal happened almost 15yrs ago and I have lived with it. I was so ashamed and embarrassed to talk about it, for fear of people calling me STUPID.
But it hit me when I came across few out of many young ladies already in and about to dive into the same mistake I made, then I realized my shame is not worth lives wasting.
So I spoke up damning the backlash. But you all SHOCKED me instead. The out pour of love and support!!!
I even concluded that you won’t watch the full video, who has time to burn on 25mins of my issues? But you all did, some watched twice or more. Wow!
I was fine and smiling through your comments and DMs, but it got to a point…I tear up reading them. I’m writing this in tears. Tears of joy, tears of liberation.
I thought I was fine, healed and whole all these years, but I’m feeling some liberation now that’s a confirmation of my healing completion.
The purpose of this video – achieved!!! My God!!!! No one is going through stuffs alone. Shocking to find out lots are going through similar or even worse.
My DM and email are buzzing with sisters sharing their experiences. Some still in it, others out. I bet millions have passed on through this.
Therein lies my true liberty. I need to get back to my quiet room and ask the Holy Spirit to come answer all the questions and situations I’ve been asked and told in my emails and DM.
THANK YOU ALL ❤❤❤❤❤❤
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Source: PADITA AGU’s IG & YouTube
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